‘Jealous’, ‘Manipulative’ Woman ‘Unwelcomed’ But I Like Polygamy, Nigerian Woman Says In Facebook Post

A Nigerian woman, Buithat Lawal, has submitted that she is not opposed to polygamy and would be willing and ready to welcome a co-wife.

Team@orientactualmags.com learned that Buithat  Lawal, a biochemist, talked about her interest in polygamy in a Facebook post on Wednesday.

While noting that polygamy has its advantages, Buithat however said she does not want a jealous, manipulative woman as a co-wife.

 ‘Hey loves, I’m smiling as I write this. Yesterday, I made a post about wanting a co-wife — someone to join me in this journey of life with my husband.

I noticed a lot of people thought I wasn’t serious, maybe even joked about it. But deep down, I meant every word.

I’ve always admired polygamy. It’s never been an issue for me. What I do take issue with is how many of our men go about it, lacking fairness and wisdom.

Growth changes a person. As I’ve grown, so have my thoughts. I’ve always told my husband, if he wants to take another wife, I support it but he must involve me fully in the process.

No, I’m not looking for a jealous or manipulative co-wife. I want someone kind, wise, filled with love, and grounded in good character.

 I want the freedom to travel for work knowing my children are safe and cared for. I want to be able to love and care for another child of my husband’s — not born by me — with sincerity, and knowing their mother trusts me completely.

I have a deep vision of what polygamy can be, but the real questions are: Can my husband be truly just? And can the new wife be spiritually grounded?

Life really isn’t meant to be this hard. I just needed to share my thoughts on polygamy and what it means to me’ she wrote-Team@orientactualmags.com  Do you have any information you wish to share with us? Do you want us to cover your event or programme? Kindly send SMS to 08059100286, 09094171980 or get in touch via orientactualmag@gmail.com.  Thank you